WALLFLOWER

EMBRACING SOLITUDE: THE QUIET CONFIDENCE OF THE WALL FLOWER.

'Wallflower' – traditionally defined as a shy individual, particularly a girl or woman, who hesitates to engage in social activities and often goes unnoticed. (Cambridge Dictionary)

In today's society, extroversion often takes center stage. We admire modern-day influencers who thrive on likes and comments, equating popularity with confidence. But what happens when popularity morphs into neediness?

Maybe it’s time to challenge this view? True confidence often resides in those unafraid to embrace solitude, who march to the beat of their own drum. Their self-assuredness emanates from within.

Could the 'Wallflower' be, in fact, a bit of a trailblazer? Contrary to the stereotype, perhaps she's not 'frightened' but rather discerning—taking the time to observe, deliberate, and choose her path.

The ability to stand alone is an art, central to the capacity to love others genuinely. It's a love that doesn't need to be returned to validate self-worth. This I believe is called unconditional love - and perhaps - the most profound kind of love?

Published in GMARO Magazine